Dan Maerten Memorial Tribute

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Dan Maerten

January 26, 1968 – February 3, 2017

Family of four smiling in front of Christmas tree

Dan was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in July 2016. I did a little research and found that we would be lucky if he was still alive at Christmas. Well – Dan made it through Christmas, but as we entered 2017 he got much worse. He was admitted to the hospital in January days before his 49th birthday. On February 1st the decision was made to move him to hospice. Dan had not seen the facility and was concerned. He was transferred later in the day and he insisted that we show him around the facility. I think he had peace once he saw the facility, especially the Labyrinth, for he was a nature lover and loved being outside. Unfortunately, he did not live long enough to enjoy this space.

Once the hospice staff learned of his decline and that my children would be graduating in May from high school and eighth grade – they offered to hold a graduation ceremony in the facility. I was both surprised and honored that this could be done. We decided as a family that we would like to have this ceremony. In less than 24 hours this amazing staff contacted family, friends, school administrators and teachers and classmates. On February 2nd we had a full graduation ceremony. With speeches from both principals, diplomas, balloons and a graduation cake we celebrated my children.

The ceremony was beautiful – both principals spoke and awarded my children with their diplomas. How loved we felt – that someone would do this for us! and to have so many people show up with such little notice, made us feel the love and support for Dan and our family.

In addition to the ceremony, this facility also provided the space for family and friends to come visit. We had many visitors, and the staff was very kind to all of them. The Family Living Room gave them a space to be together as they took turns visiting Dan one-on -one. It was so nice to go into the room and see all of them and hear them sharing stories about Dan.

Our family experience is just one story, one experience that demonstrates how important the hospice inpatient facility is to our community. I don’t know what our family would have done without Hospice.

My most precious memory from that day was when Dan insisted on standing for pomp and circumstance as our children entered the room, dressed in full graduation regalia. He surprised us all by doing this, and he was struggling to stand and without hesitation his nurses were at his side. He was a very proud father! The ceremony was beautiful—both principals spoke and awarded my children with their diplomas. How loved we felt—that someone would do this for us! And to have so many people show up with so little notice made us feel the love and support for Dan and our family. Our family experience is just one story, one experience that demonstrates how important the hospice inpatient facility is to our community. I don’t know what our family would have done without Hospice.
— Patti Maerten Hicks, wife and primary caregiver for Dan Maerten

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